Thursday, May 29, 2014

Erase Negativity

Have you ever wondered why certain people complain constantly? Do you think the world would be a better place if those people could find a way to be happy? Is it possible that there are people who will never be happy, no matter how much you work with them? If so, then I can relate. I've asked myself these questions for quite sometime.

If you've asked yourself the questions listed above, then there's a good chance you may know of someone who fits the mold. By mold, I am referring to the person who claims they can't stand drama, but constantly seek/create it, the person who wants to be happy, but is always negative, and the person who wants to change, but is more comfortable living in misery. It can be exhausting to be around these people.

Sometimes, you have the choice to include or exclude these people from your life; other times, it is not possible. Regardless, if you communicate with a negative person, here is what I want you to do: be positive. Think about it for a second. Negative people aren't always happy. Negative people want company. It fuels their fire. If you are negative, then in perpetuates the negativity. However, if you are positive, 1 of 2 things will happen. If you talk positive to a person that is receptive, then they will accept it. On the flip side, if the person only wants you to fuel his or her fire, then s/he may end up leaving you alone. Either way, it's a win-win.

You have the power to erase negativity from your life. It's impossible to control every aspect of your life, but focus on what you can control. If you focus on what you can't control, then the negativity will remain. There's no better time to take control of your life than right now.

No comments:

Post a Comment

Note: Only a member of this blog may post a comment.