Are You Moving Up?

Did last year fly by quicker than any other year? If you could have predicted what your life would look like at this very moment, would you have been correct? Are you happy with the way your life has turned out or do you wish your life was better? When I look at my current life, it is much different than I ever imagined it would be.

A little over 2 years ago, I was unsure what my life would look like. I graduated with my master's degree and didn't know what I wanted to do with my life. I attended more networking meetings than I care to admit, drove more hours than I thought was possible, learned more about interviews, resumes, and cover letters than a school career center ever taught, and spent countless hours trying to figure out "who I am" and "what I wanted" for myself. This was not a pretty time in my life. I was envious of those who seemed to have it all together. I remember thinking how bad I wanted to have it all together.

When I look at myself today, I would not have predicted the current situation I am in. I realized the job I wanted was in front of my eyes, my husband was in front of my eyes, and the path to a good life was in front of my eyes. It was all obvious, but I was blinded by the shutters others created to listen to my instincts. If I would have trusted myself, I would have saved myself from a lot of heartbreak and opportunities I turned down because  "they weren't right" at the time.

If you look at the current life you're living and aren't happy with it, what are you going to do about it? If you're not sure where to begin, ask yourself this question: Does what you want make you happy? Be completely honest with yourself and don't second guess your decision. If you say yes, but are hesitant, then it isn't the right decision for you. When you can answer "yes" with confidence, then it is most likely the right choice. After you determine what will make you happy, determine what you need to do to make happiness happen. Trust me when I say it won't be easy, painless, effortless, or convenient. Many days will probably be frustrating, give you headaches, and confusing, but I promise that your happiness is worth it.